What is the 3x3x3 Rule?

Looking into getting your first dog? Or are you a longtime dog lover and owner and you’re researching rescues? Perhaps you were out shopping for groceries and came home with a puppy from someone in the parking lot with an unexpected litter? No matter the case, when introducing a dog to a new home, the 3x3x3 Rule is a great way to establish the first 3 days, 3 weeks, and 3 months of your dog’s new life with you. 

What to Expect in the First 3 Days:

In the eyes of your new dog, whether it’s an adult or a puppy, they’ve just been taken to a whole new world and they’re surrounded by all kinds of unfamiliarity. The first 72 hours in a new home can be overwhelming for a dog, and it’s crucial to approach this time with patience and understanding. Here are some things that your dog might be experiencing during this period:

Stress and Anxiety: Your dog might feel scared, confused, or nervous. It’s common for dogs not to eat, drink, or sleep much during this period. Don’t be alarmed if they hide, act aloof, or seem uninterested in engaging with you.

Seclusion or Investigation: Some dogs might explore their new environment right away, while others may seek out a quiet corner to hide. Either response is normal.

Boundary Testing: Your dog might test the boundaries in your home, which could include behaviors like barking, whining, or even minor aggression due to fear or anxiety. It’s essential to remain calm and consistent, providing reassurance and gentle guidance.

What to Expect the First 3 Weeks:

During this time, your dog will begin to acclimate to the new environment. This period is crucial for establishing routines, building trust, and starting the bonding process.

Routine Recognition: As your dog becomes more comfortable, they will start recognizing and adapting to the daily routines of the household. This includes feeding times, walks, playtime, and when the house is generally busy or quiet. It’s important to stick to these routines to help your dog get used to daily activities that they will expect. 

Personality Emerges: Your dog’s true personality will begin to shine through as they feel more secure. Whether they are playful, reserved, energetic, or laid-back, you’ll start to see their natural behaviors and preferences. One of the most exciting parts of the process!

Training Opportunities: This is an ideal time to begin basic training, reinforcing positive behaviors, and gently correcting unwanted ones. Consistency is key—dogs thrive on routine and clear expectations. Never use negative discipline when training your dog or you will have a harder time getting them to trust you. 

The First 3 Months

After 3 months, your dog should feel fully at home in their new environment! This is when the deep bond between you and your dog truly begins to solidify.

Confidence and Comfort: At this stage, your dog should feel secure and confident in their surroundings. They will have a solid understanding of the household rules and routines.

Bond Building: The relationship between you and your dog will be strong, built on trust, respect, and mutual affection. Your dog will look to you for guidance and comfort, and you’ll have a more thorough of their needs and quirks.

Ongoing Growth: Remember, while the 3x3x3 Rule is a great framework, every dog is different. Some dogs may take more time, while others might adjust more quickly. Continue to nurture your relationship, provide consistent training, and enjoy the journey of growing together. Continue to be patient and encourage them to come out of their shell with positive reinforcement. 

Adopting a dog is a beautiful journey that requires time, patience, and a lot of love. The 3x3x3 Rule is a helpful reminder to manage your expectations in a realistic timeframe and to give your new dog the space they need to adjust. By understanding what your dog might be experiencing during the first three days, weeks, and months in your home, you’ll be better equipped to support them and build a strong, lasting bond. This is just the beginning of a wonderful adventure with your new best friend!